I am a mother of 3 I have been a stay at home mom for the longest that's how my husband wanted it since my kids are still young,my husband has been a sole breadwinner and the one who has been catering for all of our needs. Late november he told me he is breaking for his yearly leave so he travelled to his hometown as usual not knowing this is when woes would begin,since then he has never contributed nor come back(there was no feuds) have been struggling with kids single handedly from a small business had put but later collapsed due to lack of financial stability I cry myself to sleep just watching my kids go through this and sometimes struggle to put something on the table The kids are badly affected moreso now that they have not attended school for sometime now due to accumulated arrears the school couldn't contain them anymore My urge is to get help so that I can go back on my feet The plan is clear my kids school fees Clear with my landlord since we are threatened to be thrown out me and kids due to accumulated house rent Move to a more smaller affordable apartment to start my life and recollect myslef Set myself a good stable business to generate income from it be able to get kids future school fees from that,cater for their needs and so on... .and be in a position to save for those "rainy days" As a mother I just want to see my kids smile again as of late my heart is shattered to see them in this state and its taking tore on their mental state. Thank you Regards Nancy